Singledom is Aggressive

Singledom hit me in the face at 21 after nearly four years of relationshipdom.

But instead of hitting back, I stared that bitch down.

I am now facing the much desired freedom that is independence. Let’s just take a peek at some of the freedoms I now have:

  1. Going to bed WHENEVER I want

  2. Watching whatever movie I WANT to watch

  3. Spending HOURS. . . DAYS. escaping into a good book

Until those freedoms are lost, you don’t quite realize how much of your life you’ve given up for another person. There were times, yes, where I loved the love that I thought I had. In those moments, it was easy to fool myself into ignoring my own needs.

BUT NOW SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE NEEDS.

And I’m not going to deny that anymore.

Violet Leonsingledom, relationships, love, happiness, needs, self loveComment